Thursday, December 26, 2024

The 2024 Davisfolk Christmas Letter

(cue up “My Favorite Things”)


‘Manda’s and Mickey’s artistic vocations,

Classes and live shows and PBS stations.

Loving Tallulah as she learns to sing,

These are our favorite Iowa things.


Portraits of stipple, an art pointillistic,

Serving nutritious food that tastes terrific.

Luke’s art and cooking and music on strings,

These are our fave California things.


Teddy’s the lone dog surrounded by kittens,

Nic and Ms. Lindy dress warmly with mittens.

Gardening, growing, and canning in spring,

These are our favorite Iowa things.


Sharing her faith and still teaching hip-hopping,

Abigail’s schedule is often eye-popping.

All the while wearing a champion’s ring,

These are our fave California things.


Hopes we’re tending; 

By rememb’ring;

That’s what we can do.

By joyfully sharing our favorite things

We’re sending our love to you. 


It’s hard to capture a single full life in one letter, much less nine of them. Mostly we want to let you know that we have a lot of things to be thankful for and your friendship is among them. We are well and continue to enjoy our lives here in southern California. And while we enter 2025 with deep concerns, we continue to imagine the world the Christmas story implants in us – where tears are dried, wolf and lamb lie side-by-side in peace, nations no longer engage in war, and families no longer huddle in refugee camps. Please join us in trusting that Christ brings good news of great joy and invites us to share in it. May the hope of Christmas infuse your life with joy, 


Mark and Chris Davis 

Monday, December 23, 2024

A Whole Lotta Good Worship Opportunities

 Friends, 

Below is a list of the worship opportunities at St. Mark over the fourth weekend of Advent and on Christmas Eve. All of the services, except for the children's program, will be available for livestream on our YouTube Channel and for delayed worship afterwards. You can access our worship services here

Saturday at 5:00pm, we will have our Blue Christmas Service. We know that a season filled with joy is also a time of pain for those who cannot be with the ones they love. Rather than denying that pain, we offer this service to embrace the difficult part of this season, whether it is through death, distance, or some manner of estrangement. We will have opportunities to write a letter to the ones whom we miss, gather our letters to remember that we are not alone in our pain, and to have a time of anointing and prayer. It is somber – a feeling that we don’t always associate with the Christmas season – but it is filled with honesty and healing. 

Sunday at 9:30am, we will celebrate the 4th week of Advent. During this Advent season we have been asking, “What Your Sign?” as we look at the symbols of our faith. One of our shared symbols is the Advent Wreath, whose candles we have been lighting after another. This week we light the Candle of Love, as we marvel at how God’s love for us is made known by – the birth of a child. As the angel told the shepherds, “This will be a sign to you, you will find a baby.” What better way is there for us to set our sights on what God is doing in the world than to join the shepherds in going to see this sign of hope? 

Christmas Eve at 4:30pm, we will have our Family Christmas Eve Service. One of our values at St. Mark is inclusivity, and this service is a way of inviting as many children as possible to participate in the storytelling of Christmas. Since the children in attendance on Christmas Eve may be visiting from out of town, we have a pageant made up of some rehearsed parts and lots of impromptu participation, so that all the children in attendance can present, “A Savior’s Birth.” If you have family visiting with you that include little ones, this is the perfect opportunity to bring them and invite them to join in the pageant. 

Christmas Eve at 7:00pm, the St. Mark Chancel Choir will lead us in a Service of Lessons and Carols. The “lessons” will walk us through the Gospel of Luke’s Christmas story, starting with the angel Gabriel’s visit to Mary and concluding with the shepherd’s visit to Jesus. This service will also feature a string quartet, led by our friend Julie Metz, and will conclude with “Passing the Light of Christ” as we sing Silent Night. 

Christmas Eve at 9:00pm, we will circle back to the Symbolic Meaning of the Advent Candles that we have been lighting throughout the season and revisit our themes of “Living in Hope,” “Longing for Peace,” “Singing our Joy,” and “Birthing Love” as they lead us to lighting the Christ Candle. Throughout we will offer reflections by Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who was always amazed by the world-changing moment when God became human, a child, naked and dependent in this world. This service will conclude with “Passing the Light of Christ” as we sing Silent Night. 

Mark of St. Mark


Sunday, December 15, 2024

Two Tragedies

Last week we read about the murder of the CEO of UnitedHealthcare in the early hours outside of his hotel. What followed that murder, and the subsequent arrest of the murderer, was curious. For some, pent-up anger and resentment toward the insurance industry created what looks like a wave of sympathy for the action. (I want to be careful here. Nobody I've spoken to has said anything that sounds like they condoned the murder. Some folks have expressed extreme views online, apparently, but that is how we've come to use social media these days. What some are calling a "wave of sympathy" may be more of a ripple, but even that is notable, because we are talking about murder.) I’m trying to understand where that wave or ripple of sympathy comes from, so please bear with me. 

 

All of us know the frustration of spending time on a phone tree listening to a menu of options (because some of them have recently been changed) and yelling "Operator!" into our phone to little or no avail. We joke about it after the fact, but if the call is about a serious illness, it can be maddening. Some folks have had to put a procedure or prescription on hold because it was pending approval by their insurance company – a decision that is rendered when it is rendered. Too many folks have felt perpetually helpless with a process that seems to put our or our loved ones' health decisions into the hands of a nameless, faceless, voiceless decision-maker, whose cost/benefit analysis remains a mystery.[1]


 

If someone feels that their chronic pain, or the death of their loved one, was the result of bureaucratic red tape, it is emotionally hard to accept. And that pain can be compounded into resentment if we imagine that our best options are denied because of cost-cutting measure that benefit shareholders. I suspect this feeling of helplessness is what the “wave of sympathy” is really all about. 

 

Meanwhile, we abhor murder. Rightly. Murder calls for our clear and full-throated condemnation. And vigilantism, while often feeling justified by anger at its inception, almost always goes off the rails once someone decides that laws no longer apply. The murder of Brian Thompson was an act of gun violence, leaving a family in mourning and forever be scarred by it. Their pain is real, anger about such violence is likewise real. Gun violence fuels its own kind of resentment. 

 

Our challenge is to express our steadfast opposition to murder and to be sympathetic with those who have understandable resentment toward the health insurance industry. Or, to put it another way, our challenge is to condemn this murder without sounding as if we are unsympathetic toward those who feel that they live with chronic pain or that their loved one died because of callous bureaucratic red tape.  

 

This morning, the C.E.O. of UnitedHealth Group, the parent company of UnitedHealth Care, wrote an Op Ed in response to vitriol and threats that some folks have issued toward his employees. In it, he makes a distinction between the healthcare system, which he admits is flawed, and the persons working within that system, saying, “While the health system is not perfect, every corner of it is filled with people who try to do their best for those they serve.”[2]Judging from the folks I know who work in the insurance industry, I find this to be true. But I am not sure if vilifying or valorizing individuals within the system is the point. Resentment is built on the perception that some people carry out the system and benefit from it, while others are victims of it. 

 

I don’t have answers here and I’m sure that persons who work in the insurance industry as well as persons who have been frustrated by it can argue that I have not adequately captured their reality. I apologize for that. The reason I need to explore this event with you is because I think it is symptomatic of much of the anger that permeates our country right now, whether it is directed toward industries like healthcare, banking, housing, etc., or entities like city councils, universities, or houses of worship. I suspect a lot of the recent attention to loneliness is rooted in a perceived lack of empathy that people feel. 

 

This is the world to which we proclaim the salvation that comes through the birth of Christ. By attending to the complexity of our present moment, that message can bring a sharper, more poignant hope than bland annual slogans. Together, let’s lean into how the good news of great joy can find its way to those who suffer and grieve.

 

Mark of St. Mark



[1] In full disclosure, my own experience with these matters have been mostly inconvenient rigmarole, and my spouse takes it upon herself to handle most of these calls. Others are not so fortunate. 

[2] Andrew Witty, “The Health Care System Is Flawed. Let’s Fix It,” New York Times online edition, 12/13/24.

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/13/opinion/united-health-care-brian-thompson-luigi-mangione.html